Gosh time is flying by! I cannot believe I am finished with my second trimester. It truly feels like just yesterday we found out the happy news that we were expecting a little one and now there are only 85 days left until his estimated arrival. Ironically, it somehow stills feels like the end of the school year is a long way off. How can it be that the end of the school year feels so distant yet the arrival of our little one (which is for the same time) feels imminent? David and I start our Natural Childbirth classes on Sunday. Things are starting to get very real! I am super nervous about the class. I hope that whatever they teach us can actually be applied when the moment arrives, but I guess there is really no way of knowing, right?
The second trimester has definitely been my favorite so far. I have felt energetic, playful, and excited. Exercising and eating well have been my prerogatives and despite the one week hiatus on the cruise, I feel like I accomplished both mostly successfully. The baby is kicking up a storm these days and it is amazing to reflect on how the littlest motions of the early months, that felt like bubbles, have become much more prominent kicks. Sometimes you can even see the motion externally like waves on the sea. This is my favorite part. It is so cool to be sitting at home or at work and all of sudden see a stomach flick or twitch. I cannot help but smile and wonder what he is up to in there. David and I talk to him constantly and every now and then he responds with a kick. Usually though when we place a hand on my stomach all of his activity quiets. I like to think that he feels soothed by this. Watching David interact with my tummy is so darn cute. I just cannot wait to hold the little man and see David hold him too. I definitely am enjoying this selfish period where I get the baby all to myself though. All of his motions are mine, but it will be wonderful to share him with David in a few more weeks.
This middle period of pregnancy has been interesting. My body is definitely changing and it is clear that I am not just putting on weight but am pregnant. I have shifted up in clothes and cannot get enough of maxi dresses. It feels so nice to float around in mostly pajamas. My favorite maxi’s have come from Destination Maternity and they are just so light and airy. Some other favorites include: Mustela lotions and my latest obsession for vanilla smoothies. What I love about this smoothie is that it is so filling. Usually after a full day of class, I rush into the lunch room and gobble up everything in my path. This smoothie though keeps me tempered and able to think about lunch before just shoving my face on to the plate. I have been spending time reading up on breastfeeding and baby sleep patterns and I find it to be quite an interesting lesson on human anatomy. I keep stopping and reading a loud to David, “Did you know that the human body does….” Pure Barre is still my favorite exercise of choice and I am teaching Pilates this trimester at school in the afternoon program and bought some of the pure barre equipment for the girls. I am hoping to incorporate some of the exercises in for them.
The really big changes to daily life have included:
An epic appetite and insatiable thirst for water
A deep desire to nest around the house and prepare the baby’s room
An ever growing tummy
A new need for foot and ankle rubs from David after long days at work
Constant motion from the little man, he is up to 10 kicks every 30 minutes or so
A lack of consistent sleep at night (I always seem to wake up from 2:30-3:30AM)
A bedtime of 9:30PM (at the latest)
A feeling like this is going to happen SO soon and I need to READ everything I can now!
A constant joy about this next chapter (with a little anxiety about the delivery!)
Goodbye to my second trimester. You treated me well and helped me feel more and more like a mother-to-be. I am keeping my fingers crossed that the third trimester is not plagued with aches and pains. Let’s hope that the transition continues along this smooth path. And, as always I am grateful and thankful for my personal miracle.